HELPING A HURTING FRIEND : BODY LANGUAGE

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"Let us have real warm affection for one another as between brothers ..." Romans 12:10 Phillips

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Yesterday we looked at the importance of developing the quality of empathy in order to more effectively help a loved one struggling with a problem. Another essential quality is warmth.

Genuine warmth is communicated more by our actions than by what we actually say. Speaking the right words will most likely be totally ineffective if our body language reflects condemnation or impatience or if we seem distracted or unfocused.

A caring tone of voice, eye contact, non-possessive touch, pleasant facial expressions, friendly gestures and a relaxed stance impart a sense of warmth and caring. A warm voice and a caring touch can bring peace and calmness to a brokenhearted person. Warmth communicates openness and lessens defensiveness.

Consider This . . .

When planning to meet with a hurting friend, set aside a time for the meeting when you can focus and not feel rushed. Pray for your friend before you meet. Ask God to make you sensitive to the need. This preparation will help you show the warmth of caring. You won't just be saying words-your heart attitude will be reflected in body language that will help create an environment for encouragement and healing.

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